Very Immaculate Formula for a Happy Marriage
What is a Happy Marriage?
A happy marriage is satisfying, stable, and sexual. Remember, the focus of this self, partner, and relationship assessment is to empower you to create a satisfying, stable, and sexual marriage. If you identify major personal and relational vulnerabilities I encourage you to seek professional counseling to address these issues and give you the resources to create and maintain a healthy marriage.
How Happy Marriage can works
Here are some cool tips:
Communicate. Make sure your sentences have verbs. Remember that only 7 percent of communication is verbal. Actions and non-verbal communication speak much louder.
The quality of a relationship is a function of the extent to which it is built on a solid underlying friendship and meets the needs of the two people involved.
You get what you give. When you give better, you get better.
If you put your relationship in a win/lose situation, it will be a lose/lose situation.
Forget whether you're right or wrong. The question is: Is what you're doing working or not working?
There is no right or wrong way to fix a relationship. Find your own way that works. But recognize when it's not working and be honest when it needs fixing.
Falling in love is not the same thing as being in love. Embrace the change and know that it takes work.
You don't fix things by fixing your partner.
Intimacy is so important because it is when we let someone else enter our private world.
You don't necessarily solve problems. You learn how to manage them.
You teach people how to treat you. You can renegotiate the rules.
I find this study very interesting and want share with my blog readers. How to find an ideal wife or husband is a question that has puzzled us for many centuries. Following study has come up with this formula for this mystery.
Research study –This study give us Immaculate Formula for a Happy Marriage in 2013
A+B+C= happy marriage
Where
A-Bride should be five years younger than her groom
B-Bride has same cultural background
C-Bride is more intelligent of the couple
Sticking to the formula would increase the chances of a long and happy marriage by up to a fifth, the team from the Geneva School of Business found. The study, published in the European Journal of Operational Research, looked at 1,074 couples aged between 19 and 75.The researchers concluded that a wife should be at least 27 per cent more intelligent than her husband. She should hold a university degree, while he should not. Perhaps unsurprisingly, marrying a divorcée reduced the chance of wedded bliss.
Nguyen Vi Cao, who led the research, promised: If people follow these guidelines in choosing their partners they can increase their chances of a happy, long marriage by up to 20 per cent.
Some relationship experts thought there might be something in it.
Kate Figes, who interviewed 120 people for Couples, her recent book on understanding relationships, said: Aren't most women the more intelligent in a relationship anyway? That's my first reaction. It’s the only finding that rings true, from what I've found. Because its women who tend to determine the emotional landscape of a relationship. However, she warned men not to resign themselves to stupefying passivity. Intelligent men understand that for a relationship to be happy, their partner has to be happy," she said.
Linda Blair, a clinical psychologist and the author of Straight Talking, thought there could be an evolutionary reason for women to be the more intelligent partner in successful long-term relationships. She said: Going back to prehistory, women have needed to invest more in relationships than men, because men are more biologically adapted to spread their seed around."
Christine Northam, a marriage counsellor for Relate and a wife of 41 years, dismissed the findings, saying: There are lies, damned lies and statistics. Modern marriage is about both of you having an input in the relationship. It's not about one being dominant over the other.
So what you think about this study please share your experience.
