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Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Tricks to find a right one for your Life in 2011




The game of love is a crooked road of broken promises where the coveted jackpot, referred to as "the one," is too late, long-gone or maybe destined to never show at all. But there is hope. Although there is risk in love, there are also great rewards when passion and purpose fall within the right embrace.


 So before you jump on the twisted path of romance, familiarize yourself with the signs you'll encounter along the way, and recognize which will lead your hopes and heart to the man of your dreams. The following tips should help you gauge the possibilities and help you determine if he or she is right one



Natural Chemistry



Relationship experts say there is a Natural Ease that defines your interaction when you meet your perfect fit. "You don't have to push it, force it, tug it, pull it or cut the edges to make it fit," says Debrena Jackson Gandy, international speaker and author of All the Joy You Can Stand. "There is an undeniable ease and flow to the relationship. You can see it and others around you can as well.

No Compromise required



You Don't Have to Compromise Who You Are. A person who you have to change for isn't the person for you. "You should maintain and enjoy a continued, if not healthier, sense of self when you are with your partner," says Tandra McMurray, a 30-something Chicago single who has had her share of "Mr. Wrongs." "He should make you feel good about being you, while always encouraging you to be better. If a man doesn't feel good about himself, it will be hard for him to make you feel good about being you.

Good Listner


He/she listens to you. Before your man/women open his heart to you, he/she has to first open his ears. "Genuine concern manifests itself in listening to the cares, concerns and issues of your woman," says Anthony Woodson, president and CEO of BlackLoveForever.com, a matchmaking service that


has resulted in nearly 500 marriages. "Man/women who want to be around you for the long-term will be a good listener when you need him. He/she will be a dependable source of guidance and support and will not turn a deaf ear simply because the problem is too big. If he doesn't know the solution, he will try his best to find one."


Full Support


He/she enriches your Life. Being in love should have productive benefits for enhancing your quality of life..Your Mr. /Mrs Right should stretch your imagination and stimulate your desires," says Dr. Grace Cornish, spiritual psychologist and author of You Deserve Healthy Love Sis'. "He/she should, at all times and through all things, look out for your best interests. He/She should never compete with you because he knows what is good for you is good for him. Good man/women encourage and support you professionally, personally and spiritually."


Trustworthy


You Trust Him/her. When you trust your partner, you open your relationship up to a world of possibilities. Without trust, the relationship can't grow and is likely to be doomed. "To trust a man



is to believe that he is doing his best and that he wants the best for his partner," says Jel D. Lewis, relationship expert and columnist. "The secret to growing in trust is not to expect your man to be perfect." Maintaining realistic expectations is key to understanding your role and his.


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